Everything You Want...

That's the title of a song I like very much. It's by Vertical Horizon. I relate to it...see, I have a problem, I doubt I'm the only one. I don't go for the right guy...Here's the chorus of the song.

"He's everything you want
He's everything you need
He's everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
He says all the right things
At exactly the right time
But he means nothing to you
And you don't know why"

In the video you can read in the end: "Everything you want isn't everything you need" Or something in that line of idea...

Yep, there's always that someone you wish you'd love but you don't...Or maybe you've been the perfect person for someone who couldn't see?...

So what happens next when this is where you're at? You take a chance? Hope it'll work out? It gets me wondering if I truly know what I want, what I need...I will state it clearly and I think everyone should do this and not settle down for anything less!!! ;)


So here's everything I want:

Someone who can love me unconditionally
Someone who'll respect me and the choices I make
Someone who'll love me for who I am, not who I could be
Someone who knows what they want and where they're going
Someone who'll believe in me and encourage me to be all I can be
Someone who'll give without expecting to receive anything in return
Someone who'll give it all they have, put in all the efforts necessary
Someone who understands that to make a relationship work or fail, it takes two

Isn't this the minimum requirement to make a relationship work? One of my favorites songs is Alicia Keys' "When you really love someone"

"I'm a woman, lord knows it's hard
I need a real man to give me what I need
Sweet attention, love and tenderness
When it's real it's unconditional,
I'm telling y'all

Chorus:
Cause a man, just ain't a man,
if he ain't man enough
to love you when you're right,
love you when you're wrong
love you when you're weak,
love you when you're strong
take you higher
when the world got you feelin low.
He's given you his last, cuz he's thinking of you first
Given comfort when you're thinking that you're hurt
That's what's done when you really love someone"

You meet someone who should be perfect for you, but nothing...why? Because love is a crazy thing. Just for starters, it's a universal feeling...We may spend our entire life searching for something that's right there...? Maybe not, maybe yes...hmmm...I say: "trust your guts"...Love is out there! And if it's right there; you'll see it sooner or later. I like to say: "it's too bad, not too late!" ;)

I don't like thinking it's too late and if you have to, it's not the person for you. I believe in fate and destiny so if someone was meant for you, when you'll find each other, your hearts will be free! :)

TO MY FUTURE LOVE...

Hoping this time I may be right
Hoping this time it will be strong
Hoping this time it's unconditional

I've searched for you
I've never lost hope
I've been waiting for you

Now you are
Here with me
A dream becomes reality
May it, be forever and always

Caroline C.D.

Hopefully I will find everything I want soon enough (I'm not in a rush) and to all those other people wishing to find their true love...

Good luck! ;)